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Gender and Sexual Orientation Resources

Queer Life

Huffington Post: Queer Voices [website]

11 Facebook Groups Every LGBT Person Should Know [article from HuffPost Queer Voices]

SF_LA Queer Nightlife [facebook]

SF_LA Queer Nightlife [instagram]

Meetups [website]

connect with others!

Gender & Transgender


Gender Spectrum

GLAAD Trans resource list:

East Bay Kaiser Support Groups

East Bay Rainbow Community Center Groups


North Bay LGBTQ Connection (Santa Rosa)

UCSF TransCare

Info on transition (medical, voice, legal,etc)


National Center for Transgender Equality (based in DC, good info online)

WPATH's Standards of Care v7

HRC Foundation's "Safer Sex for Trans Bodies" publication [printable]

Gender Expression/Play accessories and Info

A pulse on gender norms around the world

Hear Kids' Honest Opinions on Being a Boy or Girl Around the World | National Geographic [youtube]


Trans/Love: Radical Sex, Love & Relationships Beyond the Gender Binary [book]

Trans-Kin: A Guide for Family & Friends of Transgender People [book]

Trans Bodies, Trans Selves: A Resource for the Transgender Community [book]

Trans-masculine Resources

FTM Guide (online, info on taking Testosterone)


Lou Sullivan Society (SF, specifically for FTM)


Sex Guide for Trans Men

From the Inside Out: Radical Gender Transformation, FTM and Beyond  [book]

Finding Masculinity: Female to Male Transition in Adulthood [book]


Interesting article of FTM experience

FTM Icon Buck Angel 

Speaker, Buck off inventor

Good Vibrations

-Sex Ed book by Carol Queen


-Also see clitoral vibrators (to use under a harness, if interested)

(especially blueMotion Nex1 by OhMiBod, and Eva clitoral vibrator) 


More online FTM info (packing, STP-stand to pee, etc.)


Binding specific Info:

Trans-feminine Resources


Intersex/Differences of Sex Development

Intersex Society of North America


Female-attracted Women

Girl Sex 101 by Allison Moon and KD Diamond

Just what it sounds like. Well written by a local author. 


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Stevie Vlogs [youtube]

Dr. Janelle facebook group 

For women leaving heteronormative relationships, coming out

Male-attracted Men


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